The one

He'd come up and talk to me as if we've been friends forever.
He'd be taller and darker and slimmer
He'd be confident but not arrogant, funny but not an idiot
He'd at least have a child already (so when I finally get knocked up it wouldnt be a shock)
He would drive (nothing flash, nor falling apart)
He'd be generous but not frivolous
He'll also be true to his word, ie I'll call you back/I'll pick you up at 7...and he does.
He'd be polite to others and only get his back up when he needs to.
He's be religious and spiritual, but not to the point where he rams it down your throat.
If he has beliefs, he's willing to share them but not force them on me.
He's not controlling, nor does he have stupid male double standards.
He's independent and doesnt need to be up my ass every day, but then doesnt like to be away from me too long, lol.
He'd have his own place. No sneaking around trying to avoid parents or siblings.
He'd be into books, current events, sports (only so he has stamina, lol), fashion and music.
Our conversations would be endless and if there are any silences, they would be comfortable.
He'd have drive and ambition.
He'd be proud of being black, but wouldnt ramble on about the hardships we face. He wouldnt act 'ghetto' either.
He'd hold my hand and kiss me in public, but not too much - dont want to make people sick now!
He'd be close to his family and I'd be accepted easily.
Ex-girlfriends?!? What are they? Hardly ever mentioned and if they are I'd not notice because he wouldnt focus on what they were or had.
He'd have sown his oats and had his fun, now he wants to settle down and I'll be the one.
Considerate, loyal and honest.
He'd be the one and he'd be mine

IS THAT TOO MUCH TO ASK!